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Some negative aspects of your Life

help — Thu, 16 Sep 2010 03:32:05 +0000

Some negative aspects of your Life
Hey all people out here……..bring out the negativity of your life….list out some of the negative points that you feel in your self….hey people be truthfull….have some self realization

My negative point is “Anger”.It is right that man lost their senses at the time of anger and could hamper others feelings too which I often do. But I am workiing on that and trying to become more “proactive”.

Lets see how far I go with this attitude.

How do you get rid of negative thoughts

help — Thu, 16 Sep 2010 03:28:13 +0000

how do u get rid of negative thoughts???
the time we r born we hav nothing in our mind… thn time passes and we go thru lots of experiences some of thm not very pleasing, we hear a lot of things frm various people many of which may put us down…. all these things tranform into fear and other negative thoughts…. i m sure all of us agree tht we hav or atleast at some point in our lives hav had negative thoughts…. dp u just let thm b thr or do smthng abt thm??? if yes thn wht???

Solution

Negetive thoughts. What I do is, I try to analyse the thought. What is the problem? How bad can it get? How will it affect me? Then I go through what is troubling my mind, as in what part of the event is troubling me, and then I make a short list of things I can do make the event hurt less, or if I am in trouble I make a plan as to how to get out of it. If all else fails I discuss the problem with either my dad, or someone who has gone through similar circumstances. It helps.

Positive Attitude In Life

help — Sat, 04 Sep 2010 09:05:11 +0000

Positive Attitude In Life

i’t's impossible to isolate a “positive attitude” from all the other things that can affect your life. two people may both have a positive but only one of them has developed the skills needed to actually make it happen.

i could swear by my positive attitude and say it does this and that but the truth is, i have a lot more than a positive attitude to make my life go smoother. i have a wide variety of skills and knowledge to go along with my attitude…

i also have an attitude to “make the most of every situation” which helps me too. but i have to believe, that a positive attitude alone, will never change the reality of a situation…

although without it i bet all my skills would not have allowed me to have the life i have now so i would have to say, a positive attitude is an important ingredient in living a better life but it would be like making a cake with only icing…

it might taste good but there would be no substance.

Effects of positive thinking

help — Sat, 04 Sep 2010 09:03:35 +0000

Effects of positive thinking
there are various books in the market boasting of life changing effects of positive thinking
does it help even if you have 100% faith in it

does it help even if you don’t have 100% faith in it

what is the possible reasons of it helping you

is the help of life changing amplitude?

have any tests been done in controlled conditions

Implement Positive Thinking In Real Life

help — Sat, 04 Sep 2010 09:02:32 +0000

Implement positive thinking in real life
The best way to feel positive is to implement what we believe. It is not just by reading books or watching motivating movies that one can feel positive.

If we really want to feel positive, then we should help someone else to come out of negativity. There are so many problems in the world today. If we get to see all those problems at the same time, perhaps we ourselves would question the relevance of positive thinking in life.

But the truth is that, the actual task of positive thinking is to solve all those problems of world. If we want to use the positive attitude to improve our own life, we can always do that. That is always possible. But one gets to see the real meaning of life being fulfilled when his positive attitude helps in solving the problems of others` lives.

Before the creation of a problem in the world, its solution is created. There is no problem without a solution. What actually is required from us is the wisdom to solve that problem. Our positive frame of mind always helps us in exploring the solutions to problems.

Positve thoughts open our mind, while negative ones close it. More positive we think, more open our mind will be, and we will be able to solve all problems of life in a better way.

IN short, the best way to feel positive is to practice it in real life rather than simulating it through any other means.

Be positive in life Life is beautiful and Avoid War

help — Thu, 02 Sep 2010 18:55:25 +0000

Be positive in life Life is beautiful and Avoid War.
Please be positive in life. Life is beautiful when you see things in positive angle. Please never try to make yourself unhappy by looking at the past. One should look forward and try to be happy whatever you have at present.

One life time is not enough to understand the universe and world. When you start thinking you are amazed? We fight and envy for minor gains but we do not find time to see what we have around us. Love and affection can create healthy environment around us. Peace and harmony can give enough opportunities to broaden our minds.

We do not gain at all by following the path of WAR. War can destroy only. Creation and innovation can give immense pleasure. All of us have those qualities provided we shun violence and start loving each other irrespective of colour, cast and religion.

To get more from life. you need to be more in Life

help — Thu, 02 Sep 2010 18:52:49 +0000

To get more from life , you need to be more in Life

Dear friends

In the new economy, u wl find, you will b compensated not by how heard you work..
but , by how much value you add to the world around you…
just think about it.
frndz, if you r currently being paid , thousands of rupees ..thn dis amount of rupees r given because u hve added perceived value during whole month.
yess, this reward u receive is determined , not by how loooong u work ..but by how much value added .rt.?..
thts why a Brain surgeon is paid sooo much money…more thn a MacDonald’ s employee.
))))
what do you think friends…
is the Brain surgeon , a better person ???
Not necesserily..
Is the Brain surgeon , a hard worker???
probably not..
Is he more smarter???
Who knows?..
but one thing is certain…yes, the Brain Surgeon has accumulated more special knowledge & sp. know-how thn other person…other employee . so he paid over ten times more thn tht person.who flips burger whole dy…
to be paid more money in ur work, u must add more value to the world.
and the best way to begin adding value, is to start becoming a more valuable person.
my dear frndz, Do aquire the skills , tht no one has.
Read books ..no one else is reading.
Think Thoughts .. no one else is thinking or put it another way.
In short , you can not have all tht u want …..if u remain d same person you are.
I meant…To get More from Life …..you need to b more in Life….
frndssss….keep on sharing ur views here….
Thanks.

In The beauty of the walk itself

help — Thu, 02 Sep 2010 18:48:16 +0000

In The beauty of the walk itself
On a recent Rainy day, I pulled out the book and flipped through the different chapters.
stopping at the one…
dear friends , i i read, “How to take a walk”in it.
in tht , Author shares his views..hw one can get d best out of walking .
He advises, A walk shud never hve sp. purpose.further He said,”rather thn hving a destination , u shud simply immerse urself in walking.”
my friends, dis sounds v cool bt think, if purpose added wid effeort…gives desired result. rt.?..
Author says..u must never take ur worries with u on d walk…leave thm at home.yes, i do believe this too, coz if u don do so, thy wl become even more deeply rooted in ur Mind by the end of d walk.
according to him, v shud fully aware.. shud pay complete attention to the sights, sounds, smells too.
in short, v all shud observe nd njoy the environment totally.
v shud observe the beauty of black clouds, shud smell fragrance of wet flowers..
yes frnds…The world, after all is not soo unendurable whn a person gets a chance to look at it…wht say?..
do share urs views over here, for all of us. thnks

Very good positive affirmations

help — Thu, 02 Sep 2010 18:45:08 +0000

Very good positive affirmations Whatever we think positively or negatively, we become so..That’s why think positively and give positive affirmations to our sub-conscious mind contineously. yes , continuous positive affirmation do work. It can help you replace a Negative thought with a more helpful positive one..Not only that , It also improve your Self confidence , Self Esteem and Attitude…

True meaning of life

help — Thu, 02 Sep 2010 16:27:08 +0000

True meaning of life

Life is not for the sake of achieving something.money,fame,relations,not even knowledge are its goals!it is for the sake of it.all other objectives make us start living in past and future and if nothing else than make us stuck in present. The reason behind is that we start living with set benchmarks in terms of these goals ,for self !in this process we keep alive both: memories attached with past experiences and expectations from future as burning desires to achieve more .

But nomatter how much we achieve desires become mirage and are never satisfied. people wait for one fine day:the day when everything will be perfect. And they struggle for that fine day but that fine tommorow never changes into today.it gets burried into the grave along with the man.
what an irony.joy within is seeked outside !the reservoir of bliss itself tries to search for sources of bliss and that too in nothing.